I’m not going to lie. This is just a strange story…

I’ve been feeling strange lately.

And because I’ve learned a lot from these “bizarre” feelings, I thought I would share with you as I think you might pick up something useful from my story.

You see, earlier this month…

We had the most successful launch in our history.

We generated over $186,000 in 7 days, added over 8,500 to our email list, and got promoted to over 1.5 million people.

I guess you could say it was a good week.

But directly following what many would call a massive success, I started to have all sorts of unusual and uncomfortable thoughts and feelings.

… like I frantically needed to “move on” to the next thing.

… like what we accomplished wasn’t “good enough”.

… like I had too much “pressure” on my shoulders and I couldn’t handle it.

To be honest, I just felt kind of like a failure… and I couldn’t figure out why.

So I did what I usually do when I’m confused

I get super solid with my spiritual practices (for me it’s meditation and yoga)…

… And I speak to my mentors (everyone needs coaches).

And as long as I stay open-hearted and aware about what I can learn, something profound usually comes through.

This time was no exception (and this is where the lessons come in).

The “download” that really cracked me came during a hot yoga class where I was dripping in a pool of my own sweat and mental chatter…

And here’s what it was…

I realized that I was finally starting to get what I wanted…

… to be successful. To be recognized. To have a big reach.

And that was actually making me feel deeply uncomfortable.

Because it was so new.

It was uncharted territory.

It was a place I hadn’t experienced in this way before.

So all of my feelings and thoughts of insecurity and self-sabotage were simply trying to “keep me safe” and in a space that was familiar…

Because leaving your comfort zone can feel scary.

And whether you are aware of it or not, your mind & body will revert to what it knows (aka the past) to try and keep you protected…even when it’s not what you really want.

But that was also when I realized that everything I truly wanted was NEW and not from the past…

I wanted to have NEW experiences

NEW successes.

NEW opportunities.

NEW creative expressions.

… and that if I allowed myself to stay stuck in what I already knew, nothing NEW would unfold.

So in that moment, I did something kinda strange.

I made a commitment to my discomfort.

That’s right… I made a commitment to my discomfort.

… which means that I decided to use my discomfort as a compass to tell me when I was moving in the right direction.

Because if I was uncomfortable, it meant that I was moving into an unfamiliar place…

… and an unfamiliar place is where my NEW experiences reside.

In that moment, I started to enjoy the “strange” feelings that I had inside…

Because I realized that they meant that I was doing EXACTLY what I was supposed to be doing…

And everything was progressing just fine.

So why am I sharing this with you?

Truthfully, I imagine a whole bunch of people have this very same experience.

You do something new, it feels totally scary and uncomfortable, and you don’t quite know how to handle it.

And you probably look at people like me and think:

“Hey, that guy has it all together and never deals with stuff like this so I must just be the weird one…”

Well, you’re not.

I’m weird too… and I imagine lots of people in this tribe can wave a nod of acknowledgment right back at us.

So if you’re feeling out of place, like you’re not moving in the right direction, or that you’re just plain not good enough…

Just know that those thoughts are simply trying to keep you in your past and that they are actually signs that you’re moving in the right direction of your NEW life…

Which is actually a good thing.

So if you got something of value from this little story, please share your thoughts below.

I’d love to hear from you.

Much love, Max…

Behind-The-Scenes Of A Mega Launch (great learning lesson)

Later this week, we’re kickin’ off a brand new program to teach you EXACTLY how to double or triple your email list, get endorsed and promoted by the biggest names in your industry, and participate in the new paradigm of collaboration business.

And since you are an inside member of this tribe, I wanted to give you a behind-the-scenes sneak peak at what we’re doing…

… And also share with you my biggest learning lesson in getting ready for this monster.

Keep an eye out on your inbox for an invitation to get this FREE content later this week. And if you’re not an inside member of this tribe yet, sign-up at the top of this site.

Are you excited yet? (I am!)

Did You Know That Environment Always Wins?

If you have been striving for success yet something continues to stop you, this video might provide some very insightful clues as to why you are “stuck”.

This has been a painful lesson for me lately, but one that I’m happy to share with you.

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My confession about joint ventures…

OK, I have a confession to make.

And before I get there, let me tell you the back-story; because I think it will really help you to know the truth.

So here’s the double-edge sword…

Of becoming more well-recognized in your field.

You get approached, A LOT.

… For stuff like joint ventures, speaking deals, partnerships, etc.

Now you might be saying to yourself: “That sounds awesome!”

And it is. Don’t get me wrong.

But the challenge is learning when to say “YES” and when to say “NO”.

Because if you say YES to everything, you’re going to really screw things up.

You’ll miss deadlines. You’ll piss off your tribe. And you’ll stop sharing your own story.

Oh, and your partners won’t be happy either.

But if you say NO to everything, you won’t get the help and support you need from others when it’s time for your big push.

And that’s no good either.

… So it’s a great learning lesson to walk the line between YES and NO.

MY CONFESSION

Now that I have some space to reflect back on the last 10 months, I have to admit that I don’t think I’ve done a very good job of walking that line.

And I’m sorry.

Because deep down, I have only one intention: to give you great value.

But if you’re getting opportunity after opportunity, it’s difficult to see which one to choose. Right?

And while everything I’ve sent you has been great quality, that’s not the point. Sometimes, it’s just too much.

What I’ve Learned

So since I’m here to help you become more successful in your business, let me share a few of the lessons I’ve learned about doing partnerships the right way.

1) Timing is everything. If you have too much going on, or you’re sending out too much stuff, it doesn’t matter how good the other person’s stuff is….it will be ignored. Don’t try to squeeze in too much. It just makes people angry (and opt-out).

2) Use your own voice. Don’t ever say something that doesn’t feel like you. Ever.

3) Do your research. It’s imperative that you look more deeply into what you are promoting. Take the time. It’s your name on-the-line if the stuff sucks.

4) If you need to say NO, remember that you are saying YES to your bigger vision to serve your people. We have a hard time saying no to people. Keep things in perspective.

So….I want to make a new commitment to you now.

MY COMMITMENT TO YOU

Moving forward, I promise to only send you stuff that I know (from every angle) will be beneficial and supportive to you.

And I promise to spread it out too.

That way you are not overwhelmed with options and choices.

How does that feel to you?

Let’s start now…

Over 14,000 people tuned in to be a part of this.

Over 24 really powerful speakers (including me).

It’s different, because Jeff used new technology with video, audio, and music merged into the experience.

I’ve checked it out personally and it’s pretty cutting-edge.

And it’s free.

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I hope you enjoy this.

And thanks for being a part of this tribe.

Running your own business is an ever-unfolding process and I hope it helps for you to hear about mine as it happens.

It’s hard to admit when you haven’t always operated at your highest. But part of the game is being willing to own it when you slip.

You know what I mean?

Please leave a comment below with your thoughts!

Apology from my heart to yours…

Hi there,

This feels important for me to share with you…

This weekend, I had a powerful realization about something that has probably effected both of us.

… It’s about being OUT-OF-ALIGNMENT, and what that does to your focus.

What are your thoughts? Please share…I would love to hear from you.

Much love,

Max

P.S. Here is the LINK to the event from this weekend. She’s amazing!!