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		<title>Are You A Content Creating Machine? (BVS)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 01:01:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Max Simon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you love to create content, and create content, and create content? It&#8217;s like you have a ton of awesome ideas that you know can really help others&#8230; but when it comes to marketing and selling you can always find a million reasons to keep working on your products and programs instead of getting the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you love to create content, and create content, and create content?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like you have a ton of awesome ideas that you know can really help others&#8230; but when it comes to marketing and selling you can always find a million reasons to keep working on your products and programs instead of getting the message out.</p>
<p>If you have this problem, this super fun episode of The Big Vision Show will show you how to start earning an income by sharing your great ideas with the world.</p>
<p>And hey, if you want to be featured on our next show, just ask your question in the comments box right below&#8230;</p>
<p><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/zA6uJajNxg4" frameborder="0" width="531" height="300"></iframe></p>
<p><em><strong>BIG VISION RESOURCE</strong></em>: <a href="http://bit.ly/qiVfPK" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/qiVfPK</a></p>
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		<title>How to Go From FREE To Paid (BVS)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Oct 2011 20:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Max Simon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this episode of The Big Vision Show, Jaclyn asks: &#8220;How do you go from giving away FREE advice to getting paid for it?&#8221; It&#8217;s a great question! Simply follow these 3 easy steps and you&#8217;ll start making money by sharing your knowledge &#038; wisdom with others in no time. And hey, if you want [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of The Big Vision Show, Jaclyn asks: &#8220;<em>How do you go from giving away FREE advice to getting paid for it?</em>&#8221; </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a great question! Simply follow these <strong>3 easy steps</strong> and you&#8217;ll start making money by sharing your knowledge &#038; wisdom with others in no time.</p>
<p>And hey, if you want to be featured on our next show, just ask your question in the comments box right below&#8230;</p>
<p>Enjoy this super fun episode and please share the love if you love it!</p>
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		<title>You Need To Hear This If You&#8217;re Holding Back</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 21:55:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Max Simon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We just finished the BIGGEST and most amazing event in the history of our company&#8230; and holy smokes was it powerful. A Much More Important Message For You While I have lots of juicy lessons to share with you from our event, I have a much more important video for you today. Because one thing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We just finished the <strong>BIGGEST</strong> and most amazing event in the history of our company&#8230; and holy smokes was it powerful.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">A Much More Important Message For You</h3>
<p>While I have lots of juicy lessons to share with you from our event, I have a much more important video for you today.</p>
<p>Because one thing became crystal clear at our event&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; That most entrepreneurs are just flat out playing small and they know it.</p>
<p>So watch this video to get a mega-boost of energy and direction to move you beyond your own limitations and fears&#8230;</p>
<p><iframe src="http://player.vimeo.com/video/27835384?title=0&amp;byline=0&amp;portrait=0" width="500" height="375" frameborder="0"></iframe></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">What Do You Think?<br />
</span></h3>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>I&#8217;m scared (and what I&#8217;m doing about it)</title>
		<link>http://getselfcentered.com/im-scared-and-what-im-doing-about-it</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 17:50:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Max Simon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I heavily debated (inside myself) about sending this note to you&#8230; Which is almost always the perfect sign that you need to just do it&#8230; So&#8230; Here&#8217;s the story I&#8217;m feeling kinda scared and nervous right now. Because tomorrow, we start the biggest and most high-level event of my life. The room is FILLED TO [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I heavily debated (inside myself) about sending this note to you&#8230;</p>
<p>Which is almost always the perfect sign that you need to just do it&#8230;</p>
<p>So&#8230;</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Here&#8217;s the story</h3>
<p>I&#8217;m feeling kinda scared and nervous right now.</p>
<p>Because tomorrow, we start the biggest and most high-level <a href="http://www.enlightenedentrepreneurexperience.com/event/">event</a> of my life.</p>
<p>The room is FILLED TO THE BRIM with the most incredible entrepreneurs in the world.</p>
<p>John Assaraf, Suzanne Evans, Jim Bunch, Maria Andros, Robert Evans, and about 10 other big-name players will be there as VIP guests and speakers.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">And if I&#8217;m being totally honest with you&#8230;</h3>
<p>I&#8217;m nervous.</p>
<p>&#8230; Because I keep having thoughts like:</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Will everything run smoothly?&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Will people get what they came for?&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;Will the VIP&#8217;s respect me?&#8221;</em></p>
<p>You know&#8230; all those doubts, fears, and considerations that come from not knowing what&#8217;s going to happen next.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Why I&#8217;m Sharing This With You</h3>
<p>First off, I want you to know that you are not the only one who has doubts and fears about playing a bigger game.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve heard that when you get to a certain place of &#8220;success&#8221;, you stop worrying about what will happen next.</p>
<p>&#8230; But I&#8217;m not there yet (even though I&#8217;ve produced over 200 live events).</p>
<p>Geez&#8230; you&#8217;d think the mind-chatter would  stop showing up by now&#8230;</p>
<p>Right?</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">The Deeper Truth In This</h3>
<p>The game of life &amp; business is not about whether you win or lose but how you show up.</p>
<p>And the truth is&#8230; the bigger the game you play the more you will be asked to show up.</p>
<p>&#8230; Even when you feel afraid&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; Even when you don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s going to happen next&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; Even when you&#8217;re taking a risk&#8230;</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">You simply need to SHOW UP and do your best.</h3>
<p>&#8230; Trusting that everything will work out BETTER than you expected.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m saying this for both of us today&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>KEEP SHOWING UP!</strong></p>
<p>No matter what.</p>
<p>Because everything you desire lies just on the other side of what you know&#8230;</p>
<p>In that little place that you can&#8217;t see (yet)&#8230; but know exists.</p>
<p>Inviting you to trust.</p>
<p>&#8230; and keep taking steps forward.</p>
<p>Moving in the direction of your highest purpose and your greatest level of service.</p>
<p>You know what I mean&#8230; don&#8217;t you?</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">So I&#8217;m off&#8230;</h3>
<p>Butterfly&#8217;s in my stomach and all&#8230;</p>
<p>Wish me luck&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll definitely let you know how it goes after the event.</p>
<p>OK?</p>
<p>Much love,</p>
<p>Max</p>
<p>P.S. if you have any words of wisdom or encouragement, I&#8217;d love to hear them&#8230;</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Please share them as a comment right below.</span></strong></p>
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		<title>The Story Of A Big Soul In A Little Body (funny &amp; weird)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2011 21:58:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Max Simon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m often asked: &#8220;How did you build such a successful business so quickly at a young age?&#8221; Well&#8230; I decided to record a raw, real, and honest video about my story to now. It&#8217;s pretty funny! And I share some stories I haven&#8217;t talked about in a long time&#8230; At the end of the video, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m often asked: &#8220;<em>How did you build such a successful business so quickly at a young age</em>?&#8221;</p>
<p>Well&#8230; I decided to record a raw, real, and honest video about my story to now. It&#8217;s pretty funny! And I share some stories I haven&#8217;t talked about in a long time&#8230;</p>
<p>At the end of the video, you&#8217;ll hear about my &#8220;5 Golden Rules&#8221; that will really support you in finding your own &#8220;sweet spot&#8221; and making the kind of impact you desire.</p>
<p><iframe src="http://player.vimeo.com/video/26446794?title=0&amp;byline=0&amp;portrait=0" width="500" height="281" frameborder="0"></iframe></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">What did you think?</span></strong></h3>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Do you live in FEAR of the &#8220;Opt-Out&#8221;?</title>
		<link>http://getselfcentered.com/opt-out-fear</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jul 2011 00:47:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Max Simon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh man do I have a powerful and controversial lesson to share with you today. It&#8217;s about your fear of &#8220;the opt out&#8221;&#8230; and the cold hard truth about it. Just in case you don&#8217;t know what an opt-out is&#8230; An opt-out is an action someone takes who has subscribed to your newsletter in the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh man do I have a powerful and controversial lesson to share with you today.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s about your fear of &#8220;the opt out&#8221;&#8230; and the cold hard truth about it.</p>
<h3>Just in case you don&#8217;t know what an opt-out is&#8230;</h3>
<p>An opt-out is an action someone takes who has subscribed to your newsletter in the past but they decided that they don&#8217;t want to hear from you anymore and thus they &#8220;opt-out&#8221; or un-subscribe.</p>
<p>Basically&#8230; they&#8217;re saying that you&#8217;re wasting their time and they don&#8217;t want YOU taking up any more space in their life because what you&#8217;re contributing isn&#8217;t adding value any more.</p>
<p><strong>Ouch.</strong></p>
<p>Now if you think I&#8217;m being harsh&#8230; it&#8217;s because I am.</p>
<p>But I&#8217;m doing it to prove a point&#8230;. Because this is what people think is happening when someone opt&#8217;s out from their list.</p>
<p>They take it very personal. They get upset. They feel worried that they said something wrong. They go into a tailspin of negative self-talk and remorse&#8230;</p>
<p>Essentially&#8230; people get genuinely freaked out by an opt-out.</p>
<p>&#8230; and it&#8217;s totally UN-NECESSARY!</p>
<h3>Here comes the truth engine to rear it&#8217;s POSITIVE head&#8230;</h3>
<p>First, let me tell you that on <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">EVERY</span></strong> single email I send to my list, I get between .2-.5% opt-out.</p>
<p>Meaning&#8230; about 1 person out of every 200 or so on my list is going to opt-out no matter what I send to them.</p>
<p>And just to prove a point, let me tell you a story.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">When my dad was going in for <a href="http://getselfcentered.com/lessons-from-my-dads-brain-tumor-part-3">brain surgery</a> and I sent out a super quick note asking for everyone to just keep him in their prayers so that we had &#8220;collective support&#8221;&#8230; 35 people opted-out.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">And 7 people didn&#8217;t just opt-out&#8230; they COMPLAINED!!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://getselfcentered.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-05-at-9.09.43-AM.png"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1160 aligncenter" title="Opt-out statistics" src="http://getselfcentered.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/Screen-shot-2011-07-05-at-9.09.43-AM-300x174.png" alt="Screen shot 2011 07 05 at 9.09.43 AM 300x174 Do you live in FEAR of the Opt Out? " width="445" height="236" /></a></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">So you might be thinking&#8230;</h3>
<p>That&#8217;s understandable. Max&#8217;s note about his dad had nothing to do with business so people might feel like it&#8217;s just cluttering up their inbox.</p>
<p><strong>But here&#8217;s the thing&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve sent out notes giving away FREE hour long videos jam packed with money making guidance and wisdom. Stuff people invested thousands of dollars to purchase.</p>
<p>&#8230; and I had the exact same experience. People still opted-out!</p>
<p>So now the important question is&#8230;</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Why do people opt-out?</h3>
<p>And the answer to that is simple&#8230;</p>
<p>1) Most people are overwhelmed.</p>
<p>2) Most people get too much email.</p>
<p>3) Most people are over-stimulated.</p>
<p>4) Most people just don&#8217;t need any &#8220;more&#8221; stuff.</p>
<p>And does that make YOU a bad person for sending them an email? Does that make you wrong for sharing your message? Does that mean your business is going to crash and burn when people opt-out?</p>
<p>The answer to all of those questions is no.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Stop Worrying&#8230;</h3>
<p>That is my advice to you around feeling worried and concerned around people unsubscribing.</p>
<p>The &#8220;bigger&#8221; you get&#8230; the more it&#8217;s going to happen. Just accept it and be ok with it.</p>
<p>Some people will decide you are not right for them at this time&#8230; and that&#8217;s cool. You&#8217;ll live.</p>
<p>Some people will leave, come back, leave again, and come back again. It&#8217;s happened to me many times in my business.</p>
<p>And some people will become your loyal die-hard fans, love your controversial messages, buy everything you offer, and tell all their friends about you.</p>
<p>Speak to those people. Focus on your tribe. Lead them&#8230;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s much easier to stay excited, engaged, and creative when you&#8217;ve got YOUR people in mind.</p>
<p>But whatever you do&#8230; keep speaking your truth. Keep sharing your message. Keep confronting people. And keep doing the work you love.</p>
<p>Because if you stop speaking up just because you&#8217;re afraid of a few people leaving your email list&#8230; you&#8217;re destined to stay small.</p>
<p>&#8230; And that doesn&#8217;t serve you, your tribe, or the world.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">What do you think? Do you agree? Disagree? Let&#8217;s start a conversation here. Please Share Your Thoughts Below!</span></strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Update on my dad after brain surgery #2</title>
		<link>http://getselfcentered.com/lessons-from-my-dads-brain-tumor-part-3</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2011 15:33:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Max Simon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday, my dad had his SECOND brain surgery to attempt to remove as much of his Glioblastoma tumor as possible. There was a surprisingly calm energy amongst my family and the doctors&#8230; almost as if to communicate: &#8220;We&#8217;ve  done this once before so we&#8217;re good to go.&#8221; It&#8217;s strange how life-experience can quickly give you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday, my dad had his SECOND brain surgery to attempt to remove as much of his Glioblastoma tumor as possible.</p>
<p>There was a surprisingly calm energy amongst my family and the doctors&#8230; almost as if to communicate: <em>&#8220;We&#8217;ve  done this once before so we&#8217;re good to go.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>It&#8217;s strange how life-experience can quickly give you the impression that you know how to handle a situation&#8230;. isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">The Surgery Went Well</h3>
<p>It only took 2 hours instead of the expected 4&#8230; and the doctor came out of the room with a positive energy. He said:</p>
<p><em>&#8220;We took a lot out. I&#8217;d say about 90%. And doing this surgery again was definitely the right thing to do.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>We felt a wave of relief&#8230; followed by an out pour of tears. The tension and pressure inside just needed a release&#8230;</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">My Dad Was Hilarious</h3>
<p>About an hour later, we were allowed to see him&#8230; and he was surprisingly aware and conscious for someone who just had a big chunk of his brain taken out.</p>
<p>The nurse came up to say: <em>&#8220;He&#8217;s a feisty one this guy. He already tried to get out of bed to go the bathroom and yelled at me when I tried to stop him.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Haha&#8230; I took it as another good sign that my dad hadn&#8217;t lost his fire yet.</p>
<p>And from that point forward, he was in good spirits. He even had a moment when he opened his eyes and said with a smile on his face:</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Ok&#8230; well that was fun&#8230; Can we go dancing now?&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Haha&#8230; what a sweet man. Here&#8217;s a little picture that should make you smile.</p>
<div id="attachment_1149" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://getselfcentered.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/photo2.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1149" title="dad after surgery" src="http://getselfcentered.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/photo2-300x224.jpg" alt="photo2 300x224 Update on my dad after brain surgery #2 " width="300" height="224" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Dad and my little sisters right after brain surgery</p></div>
<h3 class="mceTemp mceIEcenter" style="text-align: center;">Something else happened in the ICU</h3>
<p>The ICU stands for &#8220;Intensive Care Unit&#8221; and is where they take people right after a very serious surgery or when they are very sick and need constant attention and care.</p>
<p>So here we were in a small room in this crazy section of the hospital where people all around us were one breath away from leaving this planet&#8230; or at least that&#8217;s what it seemed like.</p>
<p>And I had this interesting thought (that is relevant to you).</p>
<p><em>&#8220;The deepest and most scary fear any of us have is dying. Whether we are willing to embrace it or not&#8230; that is our greatest fear.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>And yet here we are. Dealing with it. Head on. And it&#8217;s ok.</p>
<p>I mean&#8230; this is a totally f*cked up situation. But we can handle it. Because that&#8217;s what we do when something, or anything for that matter, shows up in our lives.</p>
<p>We just handle it the best we can.</p>
<p>And I don&#8217;t mean &#8220;we&#8221; as in my family. I mean &#8220;we&#8221; as in our collective. I mean you, us, this tribe, everyone&#8230;</p>
<p>We just handle it. Because that&#8217;s what you do in life when crazy stuff shows up without warning&#8230; You learn, grow, evolve, and keep going.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">So there really shouldn&#8217;t be anything to fear&#8230;</h3>
<p>Yesterday, my little sister asked me what I did for a living.</p>
<p>And I was explaining to her that day in and day out, I help entrepreneurs to overcome their fears about getting their message out into the world so they can become world-changing leaders and make a big difference.</p>
<p>Because when it really comes down to it&#8230; that&#8217;s all anyone really needs. To get over their fears so they can take the actions necessary to be successful.</p>
<p><em><strong>Right?</strong></em></p>
<p>Because fear is the only thing that stops you in your life and in your business.</p>
<p>Your fears that something will go wrong. Your fears that someone will not like you or respond well. Your fears that you don&#8217;t deserve it. Your fear that you will look stupid.</p>
<p>The list goes on and on and on&#8230;</p>
<p>But seriously&#8230; go spend a day in the ICU. Surround yourself with those who are one breath away from dying.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll probably have the same thought I did which was: <em>&#8220;What the hell are we really afraid of?&#8221;</em></p>
<p>I mean&#8230; let&#8217;s say your worst possible fear came true in your business.</p>
<p><em>Could you handle it?</em></p>
<p>I&#8217;ll bet you could. I&#8217;ll bet that you would muster up the strength, courage, love, compassion, and faith to just keep on keepin&#8217; on.</p>
<p>Because that&#8217;s what we do in life. We just handle it. Period.</p>
<p>&#8230; and life continues to unfold&#8230; and everything is OK.</p>
<p><em><strong>Right?</strong></em></p>
<p>So again&#8230; let&#8217;s all collectively stop waiting for everything to be right. Let&#8217;s stop getting in our own way. Let&#8217;s stop saying: &#8220;I can&#8217;t&#8221;. And let&#8217;s just get moving&#8230;</p>
<p>Because time is precious, we don&#8217;t know how long we have, and now is here.</p>
<p>OK, I&#8217;m off to go back to the hospital now. I hope this little update made you smile. I like writing these sometimes just because it helps me clear my mind&#8230; and I hope you get something out of it too. So I hope I didn&#8217;t babble on too much for ya today.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Let me know your thoughts below.</span></strong></p>
<p>Much love,</p>
<p>Max</p>
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		<title>My Raw, Real, &amp; Personal Story About Failure (It Will Happen To You Too!)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2011 01:54:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Max Simon</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’d like to tell you a raw, real, and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">personal</span> story about <strong>FAILURE</strong> today.</p>
<p>… Because I’ve discovered this can be people’s biggest concern and what stops them from taking big <strong>BOLD</strong> actions in their biz.<strong></strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>So here’s the undercover tale of utter disaster.</strong></h3>
<p>I decided to try something new and really out of the box this month.</p>
<p>… Which was to create a new on-line training platform that could run multiple times each week for FREE…</p>
<p>And we could train people LIVE from all over the world (every week) using this super cool new technology we developed.<strong></strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>It Started Off Great!</strong></h3>
<p>We had a few close promotional partners spread the word to over 340,000 people.</p>
<p><strong>Everyone was REALLY EXCITED about it.</strong></p>
<p>We had <span style="text-decoration: underline;">thousands</span> of people register for these on-line trainings.</p>
<p>… And I was PUMPED!!<strong></strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Here’s where the story of FAILURE begins.</strong></h3>
<p>Over the course of the next two weeks, here’s just a few of the DISASTERS that ensued:</p>
<p>- An entire training with 400 people CRASHED and wouldn’t let anyone on</p>
<p>- When it did work, it would cut out every 60 seconds or so</p>
<p>- Certain web browsers did not see any of the video training</p>
<p>- It DID NOT work on the iPhone (even though it was supposed to)</p>
<p>- Some people did not even get the link to join us (email glitch)</p>
<p>- Others got the wrong link all together</p>
<p>- Some were even sent directly to an order form (yikes!) and that&#8217;s all they saw.</p>
<p>It was a painful period with many late night conversations that went something like this: “<em>How the hell do we fix this by tomorrow morning</em>?”</p>
<p>Haha… just writing that makes me see <strong>how insane it really was!</strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>But here’s the thing (and where the story gets juicy)</strong></h3>
<p>Even with disaster after disaster happening…</p>
<p>My team never gave up.<br />
They never stopped looking for creative solutions.<br />
They never stopped coming up with new ideas.<br />
They never stopped working together.</p>
<p>Because in our business, we have learned to cultivate <strong>an attitude of constant improvement and change</strong>.</p>
<p>Knowing that this is the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">ONLY WAY</span> to thrive in a business environment that moves so fast and contains so many moving pieces.</p>
<p>Which is what allows us to <strong>STILL experience regular $$50,000 &#8211; $100,000 months </strong>in midst of all these challenges and difficulties.<br />
<strong></strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>What This Means To You…</strong></h3>
<p>First, we all have a tendency to put “<em>big names</em>” on a pedestal and believe that “everything works perfectly for them but just sucks for me.”</p>
<p><em><strong>Well… look at my story above. </strong></em></p>
<p>Clearly that is NOT the case. This was a true disaster where pretty much everything went wrong.</p>
<p>In fact, sometimes the bigger you are the harder you fall. Could you imagine having 400 people try to get on a training and have EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM get locked out?</p>
<p><em><strong>Ouch…</strong></em></p>
<p>I feel it’s important to share these stories authentically, so that you don’t get so down on yourself when sh*t hits the fan in your business.</p>
<p>Ok?<strong></strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>The Second Great Lesson In This…</strong></h3>
<p>The fear that things ARE NOT going to work out should <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">NEVER</span></strong> stop you from moving forward and taking big bold actions in your business.</p>
<p>In fact, after so many things going gone wrong over and over again, I’ve even developed a COMPLETELY different philosophy around failure.</p>
<p><em><strong>Ready for this?</strong></em> It’s weird…<strong></strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>I <span style="text-decoration: underline;">EXPECT</span> things to go wrong.</strong></h3>
<p>So when they do, it’s not such a big deal. And when they don’t, I’m thrilled!</p>
<p>Now this isn’t to say that I walk around with a bad attitude waiting for everything to break down (that’s not smart either)…</p>
<p>I just mean that I anticipate lots of stuff going “off plan” so when these obstacles show up (like they inevitably do)…</p>
<p>I can treat them like speed bumps rather than road blocks.</p>
<p>Because that truly is what they are… just a bump in the road meant to test your commitment and faith in yourself.<strong></strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Maybe You Can Apply This To You?</strong></h3>
<p>It’s likely that there is <span style="text-decoration: underline;">SOMETHING</span> you want to do in your business that’s scary for you.</p>
<p>… And because of that, you’re probably putting it off, and putting it off, and putting it off (right?).</p>
<p>So what do you say you embrace this post as <strong>TRUE</strong> and get into action with that thing you’ve been wanting to do?</p>
<p>As in&#8230; just go do it. Because you have that choice&#8230;</p>
<p><strong><em>You game?</em></strong></p>
<p>If so…<strong></strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>POST A COMMENT BELOW</strong></h3>
<p>Let me know what you’re taking away from this little story and more importantly, what you’re going to do NOW because of it.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"> <em><strong>I’m excited to read your comments!</strong></em></span></p>
<p>Much love,</p>
<p>Max</p>
<p><strong>P.S. </strong>Because of the massive technology breakdowns, we’ve decided to post the new training online<strong> for just TWO DAYS this Thursday &amp; Friday (June 23 &amp; 24).</strong></p>
<p>Though we prefer the LIVE environment, this felt like a nice way to make up for our mistakes.</p>
<p>… So as long as you are on our newsletter tribe, you’ll get a link to it on Thursday.</p>
<p>And please don’t ask for it early. We’re going to test everything to make sure it all works (geez)….haha.</p>
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		<title>Your Giving It All Away! And It&#8217;s Killing Your Business!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 May 2011 16:32:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Max Simon</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a special treat for you today.</p>
<p>We just got the footage from our last live event and I wanted to share an entire section with you&#8230; just because you&#8217;re in this amazing tribe of big-vision entrepreneurs!</p>
<p>And I&#8217;ll tell you, I also have an ulterior motive&#8230; which is to inspire you to register for <a href="http://www.enlightenedentrepreneurexperience.com/event/">our next live event</a> while the early-bird rate is still open to you (ends this Friday).</p>
<p>So check out this video, soak up all the juicy knowledge about the 5 things to stop doing right now that are preventing you from making more money in your business&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; And then go register for <a href="http://www.enlightenedentrepreneurexperience.com/event/">The Enlightened Entrepreneur Experience</a> while you still can.</p>
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		<title>Are Your Goals Getting In The Way Of Your Happiness? This Rocked My World!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2011 23:41:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Max Simon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the guys who&#8217;s helping fund my dad&#8217;s documentary is an amazing man named Murray. And before I tell you about how this guy totally rocked my world with a single sentence, let me tell you a little about Murray. Murray Never Has To Work Again I don&#8217;t know exact numbers (and it doesn&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the guys who&#8217;s helping fund my <a href="http://returntowholeness.com/" target="_blank">dad&#8217;s documentary</a> is an amazing man named Murray.</p>
<p>And before I tell you about how <strong>this guy totally rocked my world with a single sentence</strong>, let me tell you a little about Murray.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Murray Never Has To Work Again</h3>
<p>I don&#8217;t know exact numbers (and it doesn&#8217;t really matter) but Murray has made enough money to be able to do anything he wants for the rest of his life.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s sold two different companies, done very well with a few select investments, and is now managing his money in such a smart way by diversifying his portfolio that money will never ever be an issue for him again.</p>
<p>But what&#8217;s most interesting about Murray is not how much money he&#8217;s made&#8230; but his approach to life that&#8217;s made him all the money.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">From Shrink to Scientist to Entrepreneur to Philanthropist to Philosopher</h3>
<p>This has been Murray&#8217;s path.</p>
<p>He decided to become a doctor, then he became fascinated with research, then his research became a very successful business, then he started using his resources to give back, and now he has a very different outlook on the world than most.</p>
<p>As you can tell, it&#8217;s been a very <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>NON-LINEAR</strong></span> journey&#8230; jumping from one seemingly un-related thing to the next (which he attributes as a huge cause of his success).</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Here&#8217;s How Murray Changed My Life Forever</h3>
<p>We started talking about <strong>my own personal (biggest) challenge</strong> in my life&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; which is my almost un-satiable desire to &#8220;<em>get to the next level</em>&#8220;. Meaning, I&#8217;m always hungry to jump the next thing&#8230; even when what&#8217;s happening now is totally fantastic.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s weird&#8230; because I&#8217;m totally aware that &#8220;<em>getting there</em>&#8221; (wherever there is) is not going to be any more fulfilling than what&#8217;s happening right now&#8230;</p>
<p>But the desire to keep going never seems to slow down.</p>
<p><em>Can you relate?</em></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">That&#8217;s When Murray Asked Me This&#8230;</h3>
<p>He said: &#8220;<em>Max&#8230; are your goals getting in the way of your happiness?</em>&#8221;</p>
<p>Whoa&#8230;pause, deep breath, pause, deep breath&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>That struck a chord with me&#8230; like a super deep one.</strong></p>
<p>I mean&#8230; really think about it. Say it out-loud. Are your goals getting in the way of your happiness?</p>
<p>And then he went on to say: &#8220;<em>Because I can assure you that if you&#8217;re not happy making $500, you&#8217;re certainly not going to be happy making $5 million</em>.&#8221;</p>
<p>And then&#8230; as if to make sure that I really heard him&#8230; he told me his story:</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Max&#8230; I never set out to make millions of dollars. I always focused on doing things that excited me. I always loved pushing the envelope. And I realized that striving for excellence and looking for ways to really help others was what I wanted to do&#8230;&#8221;<br />
</em></p>
<p><em>&#8220;And it just so happened that when I got really good at doing these things&#8230; a whole lot of money followed it.&#8221;</em></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">This Is Nothing New That We Haven&#8217;t Heard A Million Times</h3>
<p>But for some reason&#8230; this single question: &#8220;<em>Are your goals getting in the way of your happiness?</em>&#8221; really shifted something in me.</p>
<p>Because I realized that consciously or un-consciously, <strong>I had a deeply rooted belief that reaching a certain goal would make my life that much better.</strong></p>
<p>Or that I would be that much happier once I got to some new destination in my mind.</p>
<p><em>You know what I mean?</em></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Here&#8217;s What&#8217;s Cool</h3>
<p>Since that conversation, I&#8217;ve given myself 100% permission to be completely and totally happy <span style="text-decoration: underline;">RIGHT NOW</span>&#8230;</p>
<p>Like no exceptions&#8230; meaning regardless of what I&#8217;m doing, how much money we&#8217;re making, or whatever else is transpiring&#8230;</p>
<p>I focus on being happy. Totally happy. Like annoyingly happy&#8230;</p>
<p>And I must say&#8230; it&#8217;s been pretty darn cool experience.</p>
<p>Because <strong>happy = happy</strong>. Plain and simple&#8230; and that makes life good.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">What This Means To You&#8230;</h3>
<p>First off&#8230; ask yourself: &#8220;<em>Are your goals getting in the way of your happiness?</em>&#8221;</p>
<p>And if they are&#8230; make the same commitment to switch it around. <strong>Have your happiness get in the way of your goals! (how you like that turnaround?!?!)</strong></p>
<p>Secondly&#8230; look at whether you are doing what you <span style="text-decoration: underline;">really</span>, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">really</span>, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">really</span> love.</p>
<p>&#8230; Or if you&#8217;ve chosen a path because you believe it will lead to a better outcome somewhere down the road.</p>
<p>If you realize that what you&#8217;re doing now is NOT making you happy&#8230; be willing to put the wheels in motion to make a shift.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">It Probably Won&#8217;t Be Easy</h3>
<p>Because all of your doubts, fears, insecurities, and conditioning will show up to tell you that &#8220;<em>you have to keep doing it the way you&#8217;re doing it</em>&#8221; or &#8220;<em>there is no other way out so just stay put</em>.&#8221;</p>
<p>But realize..<strong>. that simply is your mind trying to keep you safe.</strong></p>
<p>And realize you have a choice&#8230; you can keep playing it safe but not being super happy. Or you can muster up the courage to EMBRACE that there is a unique path for you that is BETTER than what you&#8217;re doing now and prepare to make the shift.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">As My Dad Always Says&#8230;</h3>
<p>You deserve to be happy. In fact, it&#8217;s your birthright.</p>
<p>And if you&#8217;ve never been told that before&#8230; I&#8217;m sorry &amp; happy to be the first to break the news to you.</p>
<p>Because you know what they say&#8230; &#8220;<em>Better late than never</em>.&#8221;</p>
<p>Much love,</p>
<p>Max</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Have your goals been getting in the way of your happiness? Did this story strike a deep chord with you too? Please share your comments, thoughts, or questions below!</strong></span></p>
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