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		<title>If you say YES to everything (beware)&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 16:20:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Max Simon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been a quick minute since I wrote my last blog for you&#8230; &#8230; and it pains me to admit that, because writing these personal letters to you is one of the absolute favorite parts of my life. Yet there&#8217;s a reason (like there always is in our distorted mind&#8217;s) as to why I have [...]]]></description>
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<p>It&#8217;s been a quick minute since I wrote my last blog for you&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; and <strong>it pains me</strong> to admit that, because writing these personal letters to you is one of the absolute favorite parts of my life.</p>
<p>Yet there&#8217;s a reason <em>(like there always is in our distorted mind&#8217;s)</em> as to why I have been so distracted from the very thing I love the most (which is sharing with you in this intimate way)&#8230;</p>
<p>Because in the last 30 days, we have:</p>
<ul>
<li>Experienced our first six-figure internet launch, <strong>generating over $110,500 in 8 days</strong> (wow&#8230;even I&#8217;m a little amazed by that one).</li>
<li>Come home from <a href="http://getselfcentered.com/blog/is-it-really-possible-to-live-the-dream-life-the-paradise-experiment/" target="_blank">our month long adventure in Maui</a> to re-integrate into the chaos that is Los Angeles.</li>
<li>Hire two new members into our amazing team (and begin to train them) while shifting around everyone else&#8217;s role to ensure each person is playing at their highest.</li>
<li>Been BOMBARDED by speaking requests, partnership proposals, and coaching inquires to play with other high-level leaders (more to come on this later).</li>
<li>Created ALL of the content for the <a href="http://soldoutseminarsecrets.com/closed/" target="_blank">Sold-Out Seminar Secrets</a> coaching program as well as the $5,000 live event happening June 3-5 in San Diego (this is going to be mind-blowing!!).</li>
<li>Led our own private Mastermind retreat for the powerful and amazing members of our Enlightened Entrepreneurs Club.</li>
<li>And a whole lot more&#8230;</li>
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<p>Geez&#8230;I get a little overwhelmed just writing all of this (haha).</p>
<p><em><strong>So, what does this mean to you?</strong></em></p>
<p>Well, there&#8217;s a SUPER IMPORTANT lesson in this experience that we can both learn from&#8230;and if it&#8217;s OK with you, I&#8217;m going to be totally transparent with you right now to unveil it.</p>
<p>Ok&#8230;..ready?</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>THIS IS WAY TOO MUCH STUFF TO HANDLE IN ONE MONTH!!!!</strong></h3>
<p>Like seriously&#8230;.<em>what was I thinking?</em></p>
<p>Every good opportunity that came up, we said YES to. Every time we were making a big decision, we went for gold. Every choice we made, we decided to play full out. You could say that we have been kicking a$$ and taking names (oh ya!).</p>
<p>Now I can hear you saying to yourself: &#8220;But wait a minute, that all sounds good. What&#8217;s the problem Max?&#8221;</p>
<p>On one hand, you&#8217;re right&#8230;this is all really good stuff. Yet I have a philosophy that I picked up from my very first coach (James Malinchak) that goes like this: <em>&#8220;<strong>Design your business around your life, not your life around your business.</strong>&#8221; </em></p>
<p>And let me just tell you my friend that over the last month, my life has been 100% designed around my business (yuck!)&#8230;.which means that I haven&#8217;t had time to do any of the things I love.</p>
<p>My meditation practice has been cut short. My yoga practice has suffered. I haven&#8217;t seen my friends. Heck, I barely had enough time to talk with my mom (sorry mom).</p>
<p>And truth be told&#8230;.I&#8217;m exhausted (which is just strange for me to say because I haven&#8217;t allowed myself to get into this place&#8230;.well&#8230;..ever).</p>
<p>You see, you can always experience more success. There will always be more opportunities. You can always take your business to the next level.</p>
<p><strong>Yet you can NEVER get back your time. </strong>Ever.</p>
<p>So while I am EXTREMELY PROUD about what we accomplished over the last little period, I never want to let my business take over my life again&#8230;.because it&#8217;s just not worth it.</p>
<p>And there&#8217;s such a fine line between playing full out and sacrificing yourself. And now that I&#8217;m just about on the other end of this bumpy road, here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve learned about how to better manage situations like this in the future:</p>
<p>1) Before making decisions about new opportunities, <strong>step back and ask yourself </strong>the question: &#8220;Do I really have space to do this well without compromising the other parts of my life that are important?&#8221; Understand that pretty much everything you do (especially if it&#8217;s the first time) will take up to 50% longer than you expected.</p>
<p>2) Do you have the support and infrastructure in place to properly handle this NEW opportunity without making everyone crazy? If you don&#8217;t have enough help right up front,<strong> bring new people on-board before you begin </strong>instead of in the middle of the project. It&#8217;s a whole lot harder to get help once your train has already left the station.</p>
<p>3) <strong>Say NO.</strong> Being available to everyone else without taking care of yourself is a BAD move, because you can&#8217;t serve anyone if you don&#8217;t have the energy, space, or attention to do it with 100% presence and focus.</p>
<p>4) <strong>Discern between your fear of doing something new and your clarity that it&#8217;s too much</strong>. It&#8217;s OK to say no if you simply can&#8217;t handle the extra work, and it&#8217;s OK to say YES if you&#8217;re just afraid about stepping up.</p>
<p>So&#8230;.after all this, I finally can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Our SOLD-OUT event is next weekend, the content is about 90% complete, and our new team members have really hit the ground running (yay team awesome).</p>
<p>And once we&#8217;re officially on the other side of this crazy ride, I&#8217;m really excited to dive back into creating a plethora of great content and videos for you. I have learned SO MUCH about what it really takes to make BIG money by helping other people in the last few months&#8230;so I&#8217;m eager to share it with you.</p>
<p>Cool?</p>
<p><strong>Cool&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Now it&#8217;s your turn to share.</p>
<p><strong>If you&#8217;ve ever experienced a time in your life where you really had to stretch, and came out of it with some great stories, please share them below. I would love to hear your crazy tales&#8230;<br />
</strong></p>
<p>Much love,</p>
<p>Max</p>
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